This morning, on the radio, I heard the very same song I heard while writing the article that moved you all so deeply about “sometimes goodbye is the only way”. This magnificent song, sung by the very charming Cher was popular in the late 90’s, but till date when I hear it, I feel as happy as I would have, had I landed on the moon.
The aforementioned song being “Do you believe in life after love?”
The title of the song reminded me of a very special period of my life as a result of which I wrote this article for you.
To adapt the title of the song to be in sync with the thoughts I had, I changed the word “life” to “love” which gives us “ Do you believe in love after love ? ”
So, do you believe in love after love ?
Do I believe in love AFTER love ?
This is the very same question that I tried to respond to by means of this article which, I believe will take you through my most intimate thoughts.
” Before ” Love
I don’t know the exact story behind you travelling through the galaxy of Seduction, and finally landing on Seduction by Kamal today, but allow me to share with you a little confession…
A few years before landing in the world of Seduction, I met a girl who nearly messed up my life.
She was the kind of girl I dreamed about since my childhood….The kind of girl that leaves you marvelled by her divine beauty and unique personality.
She was not too tall, nor too short, she did not have a face of perfect symmetry yet she was so beautiful. Her skin was rather tanned, her beautiful small nose, her delicious lips and ears covered by her brown hair, to top it all, her principal charm being her big brown eyes with elegantly curved lashes.
I was in love.
Love
I did everything I could to go out with her, despite my poor knowledge of seduction at the time….and guess what? I succeeded!
Yes, I did indeed succeed!
I fulfilled a dream so close to my heart.
I was going out with THE girl I loved….THE girl that touched my heart.
Life was beautiful…
It was the very first time I was in love and it was one of the best periods of my life.
We spent a year loving each other like crazy, like little lovebirds….everyone said we made the greatest high school couple, everyone spoke of us….We were the star couple!
I was a happy man beaming with joy.
Till the day she left me….
‘After’ Love
I will spare you the details of our break up to avoid straying from our principal subject of “do you believe in love after love?”
Like I mentioned above, it was the first time I fell in love with a girl, hence I would say, I lived in another world….a world where everything was beautiful, everything was perfect.
I never wanted to leave this bubble, but I was obliged to….and what is worse, I left after succumbing damages and pain to my heart.
It took me forever to recover, and above all regain my wits. I was completely disoriented that I could have ‘destroyed’ my career (transition to college) with the snap of a finger.
It was time to react.
I met a man who presented me to the famous community of seduction.
(I will reserve the details of my journey in the “biography” section of my next eBook that will be released soon)
The renaissance
When I discovered the world of seduction for the first time, I had the luck to be mentored by one of the biggest PUA (Pick up Artist) that I have ever met.
His principle was simple: read little, practise more
It is exactly what I did.
I would go out almost every day to meet and seduce women. I would speak to everyone from the beautiful to the ugly, from the fat to the thin, from the divorced to the widowed; from the Asians to the Africans….I spoke to everyone of every colour, shape and size.
I went out with those that interested me, and rejected those that didn’t. I was almost like “the typical asshole”
You know what…I regret this period.
After pondering over this, I discovered that everything I did was to satisfy my ego… my ego that was hurt.
Effectively, even if half of those reading this article would like to gain access to my success of sleeping with beautiful girls continuously let me tell you that deep inside me, I was never happy…
By happy, I mean the sentiment I felt while I was with that girl. The sentiment that made me feel full of life and energy. The sentiment that made me feel like a real man.
…and not a fucking serial flirt.
After, “after” love
Through these years, I have become a man who rarely opens his heart to a woman. I have become a man, who admittedly, does not trust women any longer. I am someone who has a ‘mask’ on.
Do I believe in love after love?
No, I don’t think so
But….. must I believe?
Must YOU believe in love after love?
Must WE believe in love after love?
The response should be: YES
This is to men that have suffered because of women, that have been hurt by a woman and that are in the process of learning the art of seduction
YOU HAVE TO BELIEVE IN LOVE AFTER LOVE
You must not follow the same path I took years ago. I only “reconstructed” superficial parts of my personality, and I was almost going to pay hard for my stupidity…
I had the luck to have taken stock and question myself in the middle of the road. I was almost NEVER going to do it, as a result of which, I would have ruined everything and everything would have gone up in smoke. I would have questioned everything I learned, and destroyed all the personal development I started.
I was young and inexperienced. If I had to put a finger on the reason I was motivated to sleep with women, left, right and centre, the reason would be as follows:
TO TAKE REVENGE AGAINST WOMEN
Without a doubt, the stupidest thing I have ever done in life.
But, a little voice always made me think of this so called motivation, at the time satanic and Machiavellian
Yes, I got what I want, but am I really happy?
Stringing together conquests, is it really of me the seducer I always dreamed of being?
Does my life have to revolve around women?
3 big questions pushed me to open my eyes and introspect.
It was great willingness, coupled with steely determination that allowed me to eliminate with surgical precision ANYTHING that ruined my life. I redefined my objectives, I established a seductive action plan and I started working on my personal development. I put in place a new strategy which allowed me to draw the path that would guarantee me success, not only with women, but in all areas of my life, especially in my professional aspirations.
In fact, I developed a very simple synthesis that I will share with you.
I discovered that when I am happy with ONE woman that I love passionately, attaining my objectives becomes child’s play and more so, a question of time. I am so full of positive energy and vibes that I excel in almost all domains.
The fact of being loved, supported, glorified and idolised by your partner gives you motivation and abundant energy EVERY morning. As a result, it allows you to achieve goals you see to be the most important.
But, to arrive at this point, you have to seduce your sweetheart, and above all, BELIEVE IN LOVE AFTER LOVE.
Your friend (Romeo and Juliet style),